Dear Future Husband,
After we get back from our honeymoon I want to adopt a puppy.
I hope that’s alright with you.
<3- Me.
Since so many of you want to help out here’s the story…
This guy I’ve known for about two years just broke up with his girlfriend; it was more serious than that but to save myself from the drama that surrounds the situation i’ll refer to her as his girlfriend.
He’s always said that he wanted to be with me but couldn’t bring himself to break up with his girlfriend. So now that he found out that she cheated on him, he broke up with her. To make matters worse the girl is coming back to where I am and she does not like me at all and he still lives far away.
I feel like he’s not the one for me and that I’m only talking to him because I’ve liked him for so long. So should I just stop talking to him and wait or should I really take this risk knowing how his last relationship turned out. Message me your answer?
I need advice. Someone help?
Living In The World These Days.
I’m so tired of people and their views these days. Honestly it makes me sick. Who are you to judge anyone? Just because they don’t follow the same rules you do doesn’t make them wrong for how they live. I wish people understood how it is to grow up these days.
Have you noticed that people always ask why teens are so depressed? Well here’s your answer. If there wasn’t so much fucking pressure on growing up everything would be okay.
If people didn’t judge the way they do, more people would be happy.
If you didn’t have to hide who you really are and you could love whoever you wanted life would be okay.
If the rules of society weren’t so strict and people didn’t look down on teens trying to figure out who we are and there wasn’t bullying then maybe, just maybe there would be less suicides.
If people didn’t downgrade how other people live and how they express themselves then there wouldn’t be depression.
But here’s the thing… People aren’t open minded and they don’t care who gets hurt as long as they’re happy. They make stupid rules that hurt other people and put restrictions on society.
I just wish people understood how it is to live these days.
I want to go out on a spontaneous romantic date.
Places like:
- The park.
- Mini golf.
- A crappy movie only to hold hands and have thumb wars.
- Driving around listening to music at sunset.
- The lake only to put our feet in the water.
- A trip to the mall, only to try on terrible clothes and take pictures.
- Go to PetCo on adoption day and pretend that we’re going to adopt all the pets.
- Go to his house and watch him play video games.
- Take walks around the neighborhood and just talk.
Something small but something that we can do and laugh and enjoy each others company. I just want to feel close with someone for once. I miss that feeling.
Relationships are like fishing…. Your heart is the bait and once in awhile a fish comes to bite but doesn’t stay. Some fish like to circle around your heart and tease you. But the real risk is letting your heart get captivated by that one fish who wants to steal it forever.
Sweet things that were said to me tonight.
Keep in mind he is not my boyfriend but will be soon enough.
‘there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and her name is mikayla’- <3
‘i’m being flirttastic’ -<3
‘you’re so beautiful.’- <3
Seriously guys I think there’s a possibility that this could last a long time. I’ll keep y’all updated.
I HATE BEING SINGLE.
I want to be happy.
Do you ever read about peoples life and get jealous? Not jealous of how they live their life, but jealous of the things they have in their life? I know I do.
I just spent the last twenty minuets on facebook looking at this girls pictures of her and her recent ex-boyfriend. Creepin yes I know but that’s not the point. Every caption on the pictures were about how great her day was with him, or how he said something to her that would forever change her life, or how lucky she was that she had him and the whole time I sat there thinking ‘I’ve only had this feeling twice and both times the relationship just failed.’
The first relationship we were young and only really hung out at church because that’s where we met. We spent a year together and when he found out I was moving he took it upon himself to find a new girl… and he did. She just so happened to be in our youth group and he cheated on me while we were still together. It really sucks when you find something so good and it ends up to be a mistake you wish you never made. Although that relationship was never perfect and he treated me terribly I still loved and still do love the boy.
The second relationship was never really and official relationship but I did enjoy all the time I spent with him. Our first date or whatever you want to call it was to the homecoming dance my junior year. I had just moved to Georgia and he jumped at the first chance to get me. After that we went out after school almost every day and went to the movies on the weekends. We would drive all over town and when I was sick he would leave stuff at my door to make me feel better. He was one of the sweetest guys but never chose to take the to properly ask me out. I know that sounds old fashion but it’s how things worst these days. Sadly he found something better than me and no it was not another girl. It was marijuana. Although he smoked weed it didn’t bother me. He was the sweetest and I really enjoyed my time with him. I’m sad that we no longer talk even though many days I wonder why I never took the chance to tell him all of this.
Some days I wonder if i’ll ever find that right guy. The guy who will show me why every other relationship didn’t work out, and be a true gentlemen. I know that people always say that patience is key but i’m seriously tired of waiting.
I want to be happy.
Hey..
FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN LOVE:
it’s not all about the good times but also it’s on how you face the bad times together, stay in love & take care of each other.
STILL IN LOVE WITH AN EX:
if there’s still a chance & it’s worth fighting for, set aside your pride & make a move. if there’s someone involved, move on.
IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP:
trust each other, believe in the relationship that you have & keep the connection.
CONFUSED:
happiness is the answer. just do whatever that makes you happy.
SINGLE:
Don’t rush things. You’ll find it soon. :)
Dear Future Boyfriend…
I Hope you like:
- The Hunger Games
- Harry Potter
- Cuddling
- Cats
- The Beatles
- Bon Iver
- Sleeping in late on weekends
- Road Trips
- The Beach
- Playing Guitar
- Scooby Doo
- Coffee
- Books
Things I hope we can do together:
- Take road trips
- Watch Disney movies on a rainy day
- Go the the beach and sit on the pier
- Get coffee late at night
- Wear matching bracelets together (yes i’m serious about this)
- Take walks
- Go on spontaneous dates
- Talk about books
- Tickle fights
- Go to a concert
- Take a million pictures
That’s all for now but I’m sure I can add more one day.
